When I walked into my local NYC culture club one mid-December morning, I wasn’t expecting to get a New Year’s Eve date. But as a pickup artist, I did have a goal. Not only to get caffeinated but also to test out a few pick-up tricks from the last post I just wrote, ” Cute and Romantic Pickup Lines, Cheesy & Corny Pickup Lines, Dirty & Funny Pickup Lines“. In it, they assert drink chains were “the Mecca for thousands of hyped-up singles.”
So, when I walked in and saw among the couples not one or two members of the rare NYC male species Bachelors avail bonus, unencumbered by stroller or nearby female, I quickly put my cell phone down in the seat across from them.
When I returned from getting my drink, as I sat and saw a hot girl sitting next to me reading newspaper I quickly went to her “Any good news in there?”, nodding at the crumpled paper in my lap. And we were off. One 15-minute conversation, a digit exchange and a few minute phone chats later, and I had a date on the biggest night of the year.
So how can you snag a New Year’s Eve hotty date on short notice? Here’s a countdown of some of the most useful techniques I tried:
Approach anywhere, I said anywhere!
You know getting lot of different peoples I have seen this in common people are usually afraid of change your body language girls, The reason you become anxious when approaching a certain person is that this person is of a big importance to you and this puts additional load on your subconscious mind. But try to meet new girls more and more to come over this so-called “Anxiety” Its completely OK to feel anxious or afraid of time to time but if those feelings became so intense to the extent that they prevented you from doing your normal tasks then you must work on treating them.
Say you’re in the market for a pup and doing some research, and a girl ask for help choosing between the iPad and iTouch, or the difference between sheathing and plywood then most of the guys will say “Umm! I don’t know I think iPad is better” here the trouble, you should reply in confidence, something like iPad yeah! I recently bought I also have an iTouch but I phone is better this will create an influence on her she will think like friendly against you and also don’t just live the communication there you should keep talking. On chilly Sundays, instead of staying in to watch “The Holiday” for the sixth time on TBS, hit a sports bar to watch football, also check out karate studios, ski slopes, comedy clubs and the beer aisle of the supermarket.
After you put yourself in position next to her, talk to them! Put your shoulders back, change your body language, smile, make eye contact and for the love of all that is studly, uncross your arms. If it makes you nervous, start small, initiating conversation with lady cashier or you just met a female friend and work your way up to asking the hottie at your gym for help. Be playful, pay her a compliment, say she is beautiful and keep it light, fun and quick — anytime, anywhere, with anyone. If you’re not sure what to say … Just keep Flirting 24/7.
These are questions about anything, designed to make your contact seem accidental. One courageous morning, I asked a hottie on the Starbucks where he got her new skirt. Did I feel stupid? Yes. Did I get a date? No. But I did get some valuable practice and learned Old Navy does nice leather work. Try “Do you know the happy hour specials?” “Have you eaten here before?” or simply “Do you have the time?” Note the difference between those lines and “Hi, I’m Marshal. Do you come here often?” If it feels contrived or dorky, let it. It’s worth it for an “Auld Lang Syne” lip-lock.
Go Out Alone
In the words of Millionaire Matchmaker Patti Stanger, “Those who travel in packs do not attract.”. Just because girl usually does the approaching, it doesn’t mean we should go in a group be alone and Rock the show.
Draw Attention to Your Product
Your “product” being you. This means go beyond looking your best — stand out. I don’t mean ginormous bows; just one eye-catching color or accessory to get people’s attention and maybe even help you step up your game. When I added a jaunty, plaid newsboy cap to my wardrobe (as something of a die-hard wool toboggan, I wouldn’t normally wear it), I found myself being spunkier to live up to the cuteness of the hat. Experiment with a funky T-Shirt, headband or pin that gives a guy a reason to come talk to you.
Lose the Headphones
I love my tunes as much as the next girl, but headphones are two type conversation stoppers that say “Leave me alone.” Try commuting and working out without your beloved buds in your ears. You might hear something more interesting than Eminem’s latest rhyme.
Dating gurus agree. Walking slowly is sexy. Dial down the pace and notice your posture and hips. Men will too.
READ FOR MORE: Attractive & SEXY Body Language Tips For Men
Dress With Babes in Mind
Not your friends. Men want to see you in clothes that are brightly colored and snugly attached to your best bodily feature. Not crotch-drooping gaucho pants, vests, cape-like garments, multiple layers, “blazers,” clogs or shoes so studded they could double as dog collars. always wear cool cloths that makes you stay out of the crowd as well as gets a hottie’s attention.