Posts by: Marshal Desai

Marshal is a dating coach for over 12 years. His passion is helping great guys become confident, social, and successful with women.

How To Be A Good Valentine

Valentine’s Day is the biggest hit-or-miss day of the day. It’s a great day to meet and impress girls. It’s also a landmine waiting to go off with any women you’re already dating.

It’s almost, and that means that everywhere you go people are scheming up various ways to go overboard in displaying their affection for someone else.

We get a lot more people coming to us in February wanting to know how we can “find me a hot girl.” Here’s the bad news: We can’t. The good news is that I Help You Date can teach you how to get out there and get a date in time for Valentine’s Day. We can even show you how to find a girl on Valentine’s Day.

So now we go to the point, firstly where to take the girl on valentine? Nothing to worry select the best place like Gardens, Restaurants or many other places but select that type of place where you feel better and you get some privatization, and yes the main thing avoid bars, pubs and clubs. Most of the time, clubs will be full of groups of desperate men and very few attractive girls.

At the time of meeting your valentine stay in touch with that girl more and more Try to approach that girl. Stay in touch. Keep atmosphere cool and happy.

The main question is that Gifts. Girls are fond of gifts and valentine is the day when girls are fond of that and yes man she really deserves it. As I suggest your girls love Teddy Bear. Yes, it may sound common but girls are having craze of teddy bears. They can’t get enough of it. Especially the larger, bigger ones, and you many other choices like surprise parties and you can also give some clothes but Teddy sounds better.

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How To Be A Good Valentine

On valentine, you can have a night out with girls. Round up all your single girlfriends, and plan a great night out together. Call them up and say, “Let’s make Valentine’s Day a girls night!” You don’t need men to have a great Valentine’s Day.

A good way of staying in everyone’s eye is sticking with the host/hostess helping her in conducting the party smoothly. People are instantly drawn to someone who comes across as a helpful person.

Since you are going to the valentine party with the hope of meeting some hot girl, it is important that you pay utmost. It is the  to getting yourself noticed. A well-dressed girl is, after all, an attractive girl who has the potential to stand out in the crowd.

To keep it simple, a girl wants TWO things MOST from a man:

1) She wants a guy who has his “Inner Game” together – meaning his self-confidence, his sense of direction in life, and his ability to stay on his course in life

2) She wants a guy who knows what to DO in each key situation when he’s with a girl, meaning how he holds himself, how he walks, how he talks, and what he does to take the relationship from one step to the next in a smooth, natural way.

If all else fails, find me girls on Valentine’s Day. There are tons of single hot girls out at the bars on Valentine’s Day. A lot of them aren’t necessarily looking to meet guys that night, but if you’re the guy who makes her feel good about being single, that’s a huge foot in the door.

I got 3 words to say to you, “Not This Year.” This is a year of change and for Valentine’s Day 2016 you are taking action!

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What To Do On First Date?

So you have met someone and like and get on with online and you have agreed to meet for your first date. What can you do to make the first impression and stand the best chance of going the second date? Well as I told in many posts that “ the First Impression Is the Last Impression”. Before going to date try to be relaxed, and then what to do for relax is the question. Do that makes you relax like listen to our favorite music, read books, do yoga and many more option are there.

When we meet someone for the first time, our nerves are usually on edges, our sense is heightened and we sometime lose our brain. Actually we don’t lose our brain, sometimes it goes to sleep mode. So this time is to wake up and try to fight the situation. Before going to date wash yourself, put on deodorant, brush your teeth and wear clean clothes. If you are taking your own car then wash it out.

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First date allows for conversation but at the same time takes some of the focus off you so that you are not under pressure to talk incessantly. Ask your partner where they like to hangout when they go out with friends. Listen to her and then try to take to take her on same place, where you know that she feel comfortable and where two of you will have a great time.

So know your date is guaranteed to comfortable, which is important also. If she’s comfortable, she’ll have more fun, and if she’s having great fun, you will get a second date.

First thing is first… always be kind and respectful to her. Treat her with some type of respect and dignity. Don’t take her for a movie because when you need to talk more at that time you pass your most time in silence,  so avoid movie. Ask her either for coffee or for any restaurant where you both can spend maximum time together and know each other very well.

Compliment her on her beauty. Remember that girls take whole day to ready for date. Try to tell her how great you think she looks, but do it tastefully.  Never talk about yourself until you are asked a specific question. Girls hate that person who are self absorbed.  Focus on her never blocks her out you must to listen what she’s saying.

“Listening is key to a successful date”

First few minutes are tough but you can do better by some points. Tell her that I’m happy to see you. Talk about how happy you are to see her, or how nice it is to have bumped in to her.  If she’s wearing a red dress, you could mention the detail about red being your favorite color, or something along those lines (My personal experience its really work).

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Whether you are attracted to the person or not, but try to be kind. It doesn’t cost you anything, but it will make a big difference to the other person’s enjoyment of the date.

What To Do On First Date

What To Do On First Date

Always make eye contact never look down, and more importantly never stare at her boobs. Always look in her eyes while talking to her. Never try first to break the eye contact. This will prove that you are the guy that she exactly wants.

Stop talking on tough issues like religion or politics. You would definitely be asking for trouble if you bring up such heated issues in your conversation. Don’t worry if there is a silence in the conversation. Don’t keep introducing new bits of conversation to keep the momentum going. Let her to be spark out and start new conversation.

Put away your phone because checking your phone during a date is one of the quickest ways to make someone feel uncomfortable. Either you are taking a call or a text, using your phone sends the signals that you aren’t more interested on dates.

Don’t be bore. The point of conversation should always be focused on drawing her attention on your own. It’s great when a girl shows affection when it’s the two of you, or shows she cares in a different way, like doing something nice.

Don’t let the evening end with a fizzle. Be intentional about saying goodbye, and initiate one of the following: a handshake, hug, or kiss. Don’t leave her standing there awkwardly at the end of the night.

“Life can be easy if you know how to keep things easy.”

 

 

 

The Mindset of a Great Lover

Sex first starts in the  thoughts of mine. In fact, our minds are the most powerful sexual organ. Your mood and state of mindset set the tone for your sexual experience. One of the best ways to become a great alpha male is to develop the mindset of a great lover.

When you act from that mindset it will be felt through your physical actions and your body language and you will start being a great lover.

The Mindset of a Great Lover

The Mindset of a Great Lover

But first, let’s look at the typical male mindset when it comes to sex. When men talk about sex, they tend to say things like…

  •  I got lucky!
  •  I got some!
  • She gave me some.
  • She was just a wild.
  • We had sex the first night; she was a slut.

Many men also put up with disrespect, flakiness, and bad behavior from women and still want to have sex with them, because they feel they are getting
something from her. Now let’s look at the mindset of a great lover. A great lover knows that he is exceptional in bed and that he has the ability to bring women incredible pleasure when he has sex with them. He knows that his skills are rare, and it makes him more valuable. He also looks at sex differently. He does not look at it in terms of taking or getting anything from a woman but in terms of giving an incredible gift of himself, and of pleasure to her. Because of this viewpoint, he does not give this gift to women who disrespect him or do not value him or his time. After all, why would you want to give a gift of incredible pleasure to someone who was inconsiderate with you, or disrespected you and made you feel bad?

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How To APPROACH a Girl

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The last time we discussed the tips on “Getting a GirlFriend” with Marshal Desai. Today I am going to discuss on how to approach a girl.

I will teach you some useful tricks to approach Girls, Here I will not guarantee you or not take any authority that you will succeed, but it will definitely help and change your body language, fear against girls and much more stuff that usually stuck you at the time of approaching girls. At the time of reading this post, the people think that “I know this” please don’t do that mistake. Try to keep learning and practicing and using it until you have it done.

So from here we go to the topic “How To Approach a Girl”! Before you dive in the conversation with a girl, wait for the exact time to talk. So, when’s the best time to approach a girl?..Don’t try to talk a girl when she is with her girlfriends. She likely feels protective for that other girls and it may be difficult to ask also and she can’t answer you directly. By the way, still it’s a good idea to talk to the group, she rejects you then, crack a joke in a boisterous crowd.

How to approach a Girl

How to approach a Girl

So before you start to approach and  impress a girl, let her know that you are interested, then the response you receive will let you know if she’s feeling the same way or not. So know the first start with the Eye contact, but use it sparingly (quality or extent), introduce yourself, smile and find a suitable topic for the situation. In short try to talk, start debating because delivery is the key to success, always remember in mind. After starting some little bit, conversation tries to look at her and really listen that what she’s saying. When she finishes her line, follow her and try to ask questions about that line.

At the time of conversation don’t be serious; you are not here to do business. You are just trying to know her. Try to keep the conversation light and friendships. So by the way, at the time of conversation she smiles on your talk, enjoying your thoughts, laughs at your joke and main important thing tries to touch your arm in shortly and gently, you will feel a change in her body language. She’s been almost into you.

The most important things to achieve after knocking down that wall of the approach are:

  • Eye Contact
  • Smile
  • Hook And Conversation

But I wonder if I should be approaching girls in the light of day like randomly in cafes or at the park or in the street. I’ve never had the guts to do that. Perhaps I just need Drinks to loosen me up. But maybe it makes is that much more effective like a horror movie: “wow, this bad guy is even killing people during the day!”

I know some friend from my college who think that his success with women is about 1%, yet he didn’t spend his whole student career for a relationship with a girl because he was always asking out every woman he meets. This is, however, not a recommended tactic. If you want to increase your success rate against girls so there are some few tactics. The ones who are more likely open to a meeting will be those who are standing still and not determinedly holding hands with someone else. So try more with eye contacts and see the response and then try to approach her.

NOTE: Never ever crack a vulgar joke with girls this may hurt your image!

At the end of conversation there are some of the strategies that can be used to say while leaving conversation with a girl, first offer a positive statement like “Nice to talk you “, “Good to know you” and then make try to make plan like “Let’s hangout for coffee tomorrow” and at last make a reason for ending the conversation like “It’s too late for him”. So as much you learn from this post that starts debating and don’t be shy about her. The main important thing for youngsters is that NEVER use “LOL” word against girl … don’t ask me Why?. As per my research, I tell you that not to use that word.

HOW TO: Challenge Women & Increase Attraction

I want to tell you a fact about women that most guys will go to their graves without ever knowing.

It is the idea of being a problem.

Being a challenge is the most highly effective factor you can do to distinguish yourself from other guys – inside a bar or club, or anywhere.

As a result, of most guys are “easy,” ladies recognize that they can get a person any time they want… and regularly the person of their choice.

The great thing about this is that you may give yourself a major benefit for those who supply a woman a problem. you’ll actually flip the tables and have her pursuing you.

Challenge Women & Increase Attraction

Challenge Women & Increase Attraction

What a problem looks as if –

It took me a long time to determine exactly what to do to transform a problem in a woman’s eyes.

I started out by using asking a few of my female friends what made a guy a challenge. this is what they stated:

  • He doesn’t at all times return telephone calls whilst you think he’s going to, and would not call when he says he’ll.
  • He is not at all times available to hang around.
  • It can be laborious to inform if he likes you or now not, and also you by no means know the way much.

The interesting attention I had is that simply the actual fact that you’re a challenge can create wonderful attraction. it can be human nature for people to need what they are able to have, and girls are so used to assembly “easy” men that simply now not being “simple” can also be sufficient to get HER to pursue YOU.

But would not she be calling me already for me not to return her calls? In different phrases, wouldn’t she have to already be into me with a purpose to CARE whether or not I appreciated her or no longer?

The fascinating attention I had is that simply the very fact that you are a challenge can create tremendous attraction.

Create The problem From the Start

It’s all about being a problem from the very beginning. I’ll share with you three ways that you would be able to act subtly completely different than what most guys do. They work to create appeal:

#1 Hold Onto Your Cards – Don’t Tell or Show Too Much Interest

  • Do not introduce yourself unless she asks your identify
  • Avoid the standard “wuss” questions like “what sort of guys do you love?”, “Am I your type?” or “I bet you have a boyfriend…”
  • Don’t linger around her

#2 Make Her Work

  • Make your intention to get her to ask you out, or ask to join you to do something you’re already doing
  • Decline or ignore her first advances or invites. (you need to hang out a while? I do not know…) do this in a fun method
  • Make her qualify herself to you (“What makes you interesting/different than other women? What are three issues a man would prefer to you, and please do not say looks?”)
  • Give her fun exams, like the Ice Cream check – stroll up to a lady with a major seem on your face and ask her, “howdy, what’s your favourite ice cream?” She answers, then you definitely roll your eyes and say, “which is minus 1 point. if you would have mentioned Chocolate Mint I would have permitted you to get my quantity. Now, when you would have mentioned Neapolitan I might have walked away, so you still have fairly of an opportunity with me…” do this in a sarcastic, joking means. women love enjoyable little conversations like this plus it units the “body” that you’re the selector.

#3 Use Takeaways

  • Get a woman laughing, then immediately walk away
  • Be unpredictable (put your arm around her, then ignore her and start speaking to your buddy)
  • Use the ability of “maybe” (“I have to get again to my chums, however perhaps I’ll goodbye… ”)
  • If she begins speaking on her telephone, either stroll away or – better yet – whip out your phone and say overly loud, “Yeah, I was once speaking to this lady, however, she’s kind of a DORK…”

These three ideas are simply the tip of the iceberg… over the years I found out many techniques that work ninety-nine.9% of the time, creating that vibe of “being a challenge” with girls.

And every time you do not turn into a problem from the beginning, women see you as “just any other man” and you lose what could have been your only probability with that individual woman.

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