Posts by: Kevin Jani

Kevin is co-founder and author of IHYD. I help guys crush personal obstacles to become the kind of men women desire and men respect.

Things To Talk On First Date

First Date is all about making an emotional connection with another person. Emotionally-aware about how people focus on discussing topics that cause the other person to have a positive experience. Often, this means showing interest in the other person, their interests, achievements, likes and dislikes.

First golden rule of best date is that listen as much or more than you talk. Some people have expertise in communication because they can talk endlessly. So keep in mind conversation will be great if an effort is done by both side, otherwise, there is no scope to be a better result.

Things To Talk On First Date

Things To Talk On First Date

Usually on first dates, I talk about books, music, movies, art, games, politics, history, sexuality, and personal experiences. We might compare our preferences for arguing about literary criticism or trade stories about childhood or debate a local referendum. I don’t believe in the old adages about banning certain topics from first dates.

Certainly there are few rules you should follow on the first date.

  • What would you do with your time if you could afford to quit your job?
  • Tell me about a gift you’ll never forget.
  • What’s the hardest thing you’ve ever done?
  • If you could change anything about yourself, what would it be?
  • If you had one day to live over again, which day would you pick?
  • If you could instantly learn any skill, what would it be?
  • What’s the best piece of advice you’ve ever been given?
  • What’s the best question anyone’s ever asked you?
  • What do you want to be remembered for?
  • What would you do if you knew you couldn’t fail?
  • If you could be any kind of animal, which kind would you be?
  • Describe a perfect Saturday.
  • If you were stuck on an island forever, with just unlimited fresh water and nothing else, what other three beverages would you want to have?
  • If you could call yourself 5 years ago and had 30 seconds, what would you say?

Getting to know someone new is like peeling an onion one thin layer at the time. It’s a slow, safe, simple and steady process. Great communication starts with being genuinely interested in the individual you’re with and paying close attention to what he/she says.

So intelligent people talk about normal, get-to-know-you type things on a first date, because just like people who don’t consider themselves intellectuals, they need to get to know each other first.

15 Golden Rules For a Better Dating Life

Dating is beautiful. As time went and new surveys say that dating rules and habits have changed.

If you’re confused about new dating rules, you’re not the only one.

Your first priority in a relationship,  no matter what kind of a relationship you have, you must have to be yourself. To do that, you’ll need to love yourself by ensuring you are ready to date before taking jump or drive directly as well as having a strong sense of self-worth and esteem.

So here are some golden rules of dating.

  • Don’t build castles in the air. Just because he/she agrees to go out on a date does not mean he/she is in love with you.
  • Do not talk on the mobile phone, unless it’s too urgent. Talking on the phone, while on the date is total disrespect.
  • The most important one is BE HONEST about your feelings for the other person.
15 Golden Rules For Dating

15 Golden Rules For Dating

  • If you’re sexually attracted to them, please do not assume the other person feels the same, so do not pounce on him/her.
  • Never date if you’re still not over someone.
  • Have enough cash to cover for both you and the other person. If this is a deal breaker, then you can end it later; don’t cause an awkward scene at the date.
  • As a man, the general rule of thumb is: listen a lot, acknowledge, and laugh. Women don’t like being corrected very much. Don’t be a dumbass, but don’t be wanting to correct every wrong thing that is said.
  • Be on time. Girls, it might make you feel awesome to dress up like a queen, come freaking 30 minutes late, and expect the guy to be swept off his feet by your mesmerising beauty, but it’s not the right thing to do. Get real, and get efficient.
  • Keep it light and fun and don’t make it into an interview.
  • Dress comfortably. I have no problem if you are as comfy as a cantaloupe in your tight dress and dizzying high heels, but if you are going to spend the whole date adjusting your dress and trying to ignore the pain in your calves, I suggest you rethink. I did most of my dates in jeans, kurtas and floaters, and I did not do bad. Same about makeup- comfort is more important.
  • Please do not pay fake compliments, it doesn’t take much to differentiate between fake/real compliments.
  • Be honest about your intentions, particularly to yourself. Remember that it’s easiest to lie to oneself.
  • Don’t be 100% honest. Don’t lie, but don’t say everything about you at first. It’s just not a good idea.
  • Talk about general things. Don’t get too personal. Do not discuss previous love lives.
  • Talk about what you are passionate about, what you like to do, what makes you happy.

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How To Treat Your GirlFriend Like a Queen

Almost every guys should how to behave or treat a girlfriend. There are few things to know about being a good boyfriend.

As we know that boyfriends are not born great. They become good boyfriends by knowing how to behave with  the girl they love.

The way she likes to get treated.

Be Nice.
Be Gentle.
Be Respectful.

If you and your girlfriend together hangout in a group of friends, then doesn’t treat her differently at that time. Enjoy a lot with everybody and don’t let your friends feel that you don’t have time for them anymore.

How To Treat A GirlFriend

How To Treat A GirlFriend

Many of time I see people once they enter the relation they stop doing the cute and crazy things which made your partner fall for you. Never stop impressing her, surprising her. Keep doing all small efforts.

One of the first steps in getting the admiration of a girl you like is to treat her like a lady. Make feel her special when you are in a group.

Start with a gift, whenever you feel more love on her try to share that love with a gift. Also, don’t be over in giving gifts sometimes they take disadvantage of this. You don’t need to overdo things just talk to her whenever she wants, feel her emotions and make her feel secure.

Every girl  wants to be loved. Be the shoulder where she can relax without caring for the world. A shoulder in happy times when she wants to support and most importantly when she feels just satisfied with life.

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5 Awesome Benefits Of Having Girlfriend

Everyone has their own choice. If someone’s fall in love it was not a choice it was a decision made by them to love each other.  Love to special ones gives extraordinary feeling to be happy. The best things with a girlfriend can never be kept. They must be given away. A Smile, a Kiss, and Love.

So here by I am talking about the 5 Awesome benefits of having a girlfriend.

#1. Someone To Take Care Of You

We all need a person who is going to take care of us. Well having a girlfriend this thing we get easily, she will definitely go to take care of us. She will take care of food, clothes and many more things. If we are in a bad situation at that time she will there to help us and to release our stress.

#2. Having Company To Go Out With Someone

While it always seems that after girlfriends come into your life you have very few people in the friend zone. But nothing to worry if you have dream girl with you then she will be there to hangout. It will be your choice that where to go either it was a movie or for dinner but she will be there to go out with and spend quality of time.

5 Awesome Benefits Of Having Girlfriend

5 Awesome Benefits Of Having Girlfriend

#3.She Can Work As Alarm For You

If you have any important meeting or you need to wake up early tomorrow morning for some urgent work. You have that girl who will help you waking up for work. If you are a student and you are having an exam and if it mean to your girlfriend then she will definitely help you to wake up in the morning. She will be always with you for reminding each and everything in life.

#4. Arguments With Her

If you have a girlfriend then you have lots of topics to argue or discuss. Arguments with your girlfriend make your mood bitter at times which in return also affect your relationship with others. Sweet talks are sometimes converted into trivial incessant nagging arguments.

#5. She Will Always Encourage You

Either situation is bad or good she will be always there to encourage you. She will be there to give your best and work as a barrier for those works which are not good for you.

It’s all about the 5 Awesome benefits of having a girlfriend.

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10 Things That Every Girl Want To Hear

There are plenty of things that girls love to hear. Its seems that all young boys and man are wondering about that what she love most to hear? In most cases girls love complement and if you are committed then definitely she loves to hear a compliment.

I did research on girls and found 10 best things that girls love to hear. Here’s a complete guide to help you learn exactly what girls wants to hear.

#1. I love You

“I love you” is always a good one to go to, but only if you actually do. Girls place much more importance on these three magical words. So, make sure you say it at the right place and the right time, but when she is least expecting it.

#2. Let’s Go For Shopping

Well, we all know that girls love shopping. After making a good relation with her tell her for shopping and in shopping gift some clothes to her.

#3. I Can’t Wait To See You

“I can’t wait to see you” is the word that every girl wants to hear. By this word, she feels special. She feels and think about you buy this word that you are that someone think about her and want to see her.

10 Things That Every Girl Want To Hear

10 Things That Every Girl Want To Hear

#4. It’s My Glad To Have You

Tell her that she is the only one for you. If not her, you would probably have still been single. Girls love to be with men who are amiable and there is no better way to tell her that you are a true gentleman than to thank her for being the person that she is. Tell her that your life is beautiful only because she is a part of it. Don’t be surprised if you find her blushing.

#5. No Matter What Happens I’ll Always Be There For You

Give her appreciation that whatever the situation is I will be there always for you. It’s create a good image of you in that girl mind.

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