If you managed to secure a second date, it means that the girl you went out with got really interested in you. Also, it can be your second chance to make a good impression and show your best self.
First dates are associated with nervousness, uncertainty, and pressure – not the best emotions and feelings for having a great time. In addition to this, first dates tend to last no more than several hours especially if you arrange a real-life rendezvous with a stranger online and don’t want to waste your time in case she turns out to be not your type.
So, you go out, communicate trying to get to know each other, and if there is a connection between you two, you ask her and she agrees to have a second date.
Now that you’re not strangers anymore, you’ll feel more comfortable on your second date and this will let you be yourself. Also, you’ll get an opportunity to ask her the questions you wanted to ask during your first encounter and make sure that the first impressions weren’t deceiving.
She will also re-assess your previous experience, so you need to do your best in order to be up to the mark.
Go to a different place. Your second date should differ from your first meeting. First of all, choose a new venue. If it was a café, try something new this time or include dining only as a part of your date number two. Since you’re going to spend together the whole evening rather than a few hours, plan to visit two or more places. Your date should experience different emotions and different environments will facilitate it. For example, you can go bowling first to get active and then go to the restaurant to relax and talk.
Meet before the date starts. When it’s your first date, you choose the venue and meet right there. Everything is quite formal so far. But when you go out on the second date, you should meet earlier and go to the venue together. Pick her up at her place or chose another meeting point. The idea is to show that you’re already responsible for accompanying her. Continue Reading